ClubFEM® Activity Guidelines

MEMBERSHIP REQUIREMENTS

• To be considered for membership an individual or couple must attend at least 2 ClubFEM^® parties.
• Decisions about membership are made by the ClubFEM^® Executive Committee.
• Membership in ClubFEM^® provides an automatic invitation to all ClubFEM^® functions.

 

PARTY RULES

ClubFEM^® members agree to abide by the following ClubFEM^® protocol at parties and events:

• ClubFEM^® members agree to be in the FemDom and male submissive roles exclusively at ClubFEM^® parties and events.
• There is no requirement for Dommes or subs to engage in BDSM play (scenes). Although some may choose to play, many people attend parties to socialise and learn techniques by watching others.
• Males are to behave respectfully to all Females at all times.
• All ClubFEM^® slaves/submissives are expected to bring an attitude of servitude and submissiveness and should be willing to serve refreshments and treat the Women respectfully. Slaves are not obligated to engage in any form of play without consent and negotiation.
• Males are to address Females as Mistress or other proper titles as designated by that Female.
• Dominant attire for Females may include leather, latex, vinyl, modest lingerie and/or black clothing.
• Males may appear semi-nude or nude at ClubFEM^® parties. Although men are usually expected to wear a collar and a thong, other appropriate fetish or cross-dressed outfits are also allowed. A leash, wrist and ankle cuffs are optional. Boxer shots and men's briefs are not considered appropriate attire under any circumstances.
• Females are to refrain from touching or commanding a collared slave/submissive without his Owners permission.
• Males who wish to be available to any Domme for servitude or BDSM play scenes will wear a pink ribbon on their collar. However, wearing a pink ribbon does not obligate a slave to engage in play nor does it negate the need to negotiate a scene.

 

SAFETY

• People expected to act in a sane and consensual manner at all ClubFEM^® parties and events.
• Impairment by alcohol or other legal drugs is not permitted. People who are impaired will be asked to leave.
• No illegal substances are allowed at ClubFEM^® parties and events.
• Safewords or gestures are to be used at all ClubFEM^® sponsored activities. Suggested safewords are:
• "green" = within limits
• "yellow" = close to limits (proceed carefully)
• "red" = over limits (stop immediately)

Safety is the number one concern, particularly when with a new submissive. Other personal safewords may be used as long as they are communicated beforehand. When it is not possible to use a safeword, some type of gesture should be agreed upon.